In Shad Helmstetter’s Book he says the average 16 year old has been told no or you can’t do it over 17,000 times. Today I talk about changing the way we interact with our children, spouses, and friends. As we become aware of the comments we make we then can begin to change those hurtful words. As you go through the next few days be conscious of the things you say to those around you. Are you one that is encouraging those to go after those goals in life or are you adding to the 17,000 no’s or you can’t do it?